Advocacy Toolkit
Templates, checklists, and plain-English rights — so you can advocate for yourself without starting from scratch.
ADA Accommodation Request Letter
A formal accommodation request letter you can customize with your specific needs and send to HR.
HR Conversation Starter Script
A casual email script for starting the accommodation conversation — less formal than the letter, great for a first touch.
Doctor Appointment Prep Checklist
Walk into every appointment feeling prepared. No more leaving and realizing you forgot to mention something important.
Before Your Appointment
- Write down your symptoms in the past 2-4 weeks — be specific (when, how long, severity)
- Note any new symptoms, even if they seem unrelated
- List all medications including supplements and OTC drugs
- Print or bring your recent symptom log
- Write your top 3 questions or concerns — you may not get to all of them
- Note any flares since your last visit
- Check if any labs were ordered and if results are available
During Your Appointment
- Start with your most important concern — don't save it for the end
- Ask the doctor to explain things in plain language if needed
- Repeat back what you heard to confirm you understood
- Ask: "What should I do if I get worse before my next appointment?"
- Ask about any lifestyle changes that might help
- Get clarity on any new medications: how to take, side effects, timeline
- Ask when you should follow up or if any referrals are needed
After Your Appointment
- Write down what was discussed while it's fresh
- Fill any new prescriptions promptly
- Schedule any follow-up appointments or referrals
- Save your appointment notes in your health file
- Update your symptom tracker with any new info
Know Your Rights — Plain English
You have the right to reasonable accommodations
If you have a chronic illness that substantially limits a major life activity, your employer must provide reasonable accommodations unless it creates undue hardship.
You don't have to disclose your specific diagnosis
You can describe your functional limitations without naming your condition. Your employer cannot require your diagnosis, only documentation that you have a disability that requires accommodation.
You are protected from retaliation
Your employer cannot fire, demote, or retaliate against you for requesting an accommodation or asserting your ADA rights.
Students have rights too (Section 504 / ADA Title II)
At K-12 schools, you may be eligible for a 504 plan or IEP. At colleges and universities, your disability services office coordinates accommodations including extensions, note-taking services, and more.
FMLA provides job-protected leave
The Family and Medical Leave Act allows eligible employees to take up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave per year for qualifying medical conditions — including chronic illness flares — without losing their job.
Your medical information must stay private
HR must keep your medical information separate and confidential. Your manager does not need to know your diagnosis — only the accommodation being provided.
💼 Work & School
Scripts, templates, and honest guidance for navigating work and school with a chronic condition.